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		<title>My Greatest Birthday Wish</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 03:19:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tomorrow,  August 24th, is 33 years to the day that the saline infusion for  abortion that was intended to take my life was initiated by my biological mother. My &#8220;birth&#8221; day,  literally, my survival day, is actually August 29th, the day that I was  delivered in bed by a nurse and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Tomorrow,  August 24th, is 33 years to the day that the saline infusion for  abortion that was intended to take my life was initiated by my biological mother. My &#8220;birth&#8221; day,  literally, my survival day, is actually August 29th, the day that I was  delivered in bed by a nurse and initially left for dead, but soon thereafter provided medical care that sustained my fragile life.  Although I struggled for many years with the fact that I was aborted and survived, I would not change a thing about who I am or the circumstances that led to my arrival into this world.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">What I would change, however, is the amount of pain and suffering that my biological parents and their families, and all of the men, women, families and communities out there suffer everyday as the result of abortion.  No man or woman should feel like abortion is the only &#8220;choice&#8221; out there for them.  They need to be supported and loved, they need to know that there is financial, emotional, social, and spiritual help available, and that there is always another option than abortion.<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">With my birthday fast approaching, what better way is there to honor my unborn brothers and sisters, their parents, and my own biological and adoptive parents than by donating to Care Net.  If you have the means to donate, I sincerely appreciate you honoring me, my family, and the fellow unborn.  God Bless!<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">To donate to my birthday wish, please visit:  <a href="http://birthdays.causes.com/wishes/19028">http://birthdays.causes.com/wishes/19028</a></span></p>
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		<title>Yellow Roses</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 17:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
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I had the awesome opportunity to be guest on Cornerstone Television&#8217;s Focus 4 Program recently (see a video clip and additional YouTube links on my Media page).  It was such a blessing to be a part of their program that day, sharing in the message about God at work in our lives, and I believe [...]]]></description>
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<p>I had the awesome opportunity to be guest on Cornerstone Television&#8217;s Focus 4 Program recently (see a video clip and additional YouTube links on my Media page).  It was such a blessing to be a part of their program that day, sharing in the message about God at work in our lives, and I believe that it was no coincidence that Steve Feazel, a popular Christian speaker, writer, comedian, and producer was also on the show that day to discuss the new film Yellow Roses.</p>
<p>As a young woman, I struggled greatly with my self-esteem, my self-concept, and desperately wanted to be &#8220;normal,&#8221; despite the reality of how I entered this world.  For many years I did anything and everything that I could to fit in and camouflage the pain that I felt inside.  The courageous young women in this film share their own personal struggles with the pressure to fit in, the pressure to do anything and everything to be liked and wanted.  Most importantly, these beautiful young women share inspire others like them to heal from the pain and the experiences in their lives, and give them hope that no matter what, they ARE wanted and they ARE loved, by the God who loves us, even when we don&#8217;t love ourselves.</p>
<p>I encourage you to check out the trailer for Yellow Roses and visit the website at:  <a href="http://www.yellowrosesfilm.com">http://www.yellowrosesfilm.com</a> for more information on the film, how to order it, and how to schedule a viewing if you are interested for youth in your school or your church.</p>
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		<title>The Diary of an Unborn Child</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 02:49:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Diary of an Unborn Child, circa Awake! May 22, 1980.  My adoptive parents had saved  a newspaper clipping of this for me that I was able to read after  finding out about surviving the saline infusion abortion.  Such a sad  but true account of what I, and all of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The Diary of an Unborn Child, circa Awake! May 22, 1980.  My adoptive parents had saved  a newspaper clipping of this for me that I was able to read after  finding out about surviving the saline infusion abortion.  Such a sad  but true account of what I, and all of the unborn who are aborted face:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">OCTOBER 5: Today my life began. My parents do not know it yet, but it is  I already. And I am to be a girl. I shall have blond hair and blue  eyes. Just about everything is settled though, even the fact that I  shall love flowers. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">OCTOBER 19: Some say that I am not a real person yet, that only my  mother exists. But I am a real person, just as a small crumb of bread is  yet truly bread. My mother is. And I am. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">OCTOBER 23: My mouth is just beginning to open now. Just think, in a  year or so I shall be laughing and later talking. I know what my first  word will be: MAMA. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">OCTOBER 25: My heart began to beat today all by itself. From now on it  shall gently beat for the rest of my life without ever stopping to rest!  And after many years it will tire. It will stop, and then I shall die. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">NOVEMBER 2: I am growing a bit every day. My arms and legs are beginning  to take shape. But I have to wait a long time yet before those little  legs will raise me to my mother’s arms, before these little arms will be  able to gather flowers and embrace my father. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">NOVEMBER 12: Tiny fingers are beginning to form on my hands. Funny how  small they are! I’ll be able to stroke my mother’s hair with  them.NOVEMBER 20:It wasn’t until today that the doctor told mom that I  am living here under her heart. Oh, how happy she must be! Are you  happy, mom? </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">NOVEMBER 25: My mom and dad are probably thinking about a name for me.  But they don’t even know that I am a little girl. I want to be called  Kathy. I am getting so big already. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">DECEMBER 10: My hair is growing. It is smooth and bright and shiny. I  wonder what kind of hair mom has? </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">DECEMBER 13: I am just about able to see. It is dark around me. When mom  brings me into the world it will be full of sunshine and flowers. But  what I want more than anything is to see my mom. How do you look, mom? </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">DECEMBER 24: I wonder if mom hears the whispering of my heart? Some  children come into the world a little sick. But my heart is strong and  healthy. It beats so evenly: tup-tup, tup-tup. You’ll have a healthy  little daughter, mom! </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">DECEMBER 28: Today my mother killed me.—Anonymous</span></p>
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		<title>Abortion Hurts Men (and a WRTL convention recap)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 03:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was so blessed this weekend to attend the Wisconsin Right to Life Convention in Stevens Point.  It was certainly one of my favorite speaking experiences thus far for many reasons.  First off, the convention was fantastic and focused on issues on the forefront of the pro-life movement:  the use of social media and technology [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was so blessed this weekend to attend the Wisconsin Right to Life Convention in Stevens Point.  It was certainly one of my favorite speaking experiences thus far for many reasons.  First off, the convention was fantastic and focused on issues on the forefront of the pro-life movement:  the use of social media and technology in the pro-life movement and politics, euthanasia and assisted suicide, the eugenic legacy of Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood, and the importance of voting in the 2010 elections.  The speakers included Alex Schadenberg, from the Euthanasia Prevention Coalition; Angela Franks, author of Margaret Sanger&#8217;s Eugenic Legacy; and Karen Cross, Political Director of the National Right to Life Committee. Mike Spielman, from Abort73.com (great ministry, website and pro-life materials on their site by the way: http:/www.abort73.com), was also present, and led the group in prayer.</p>
<p>Executive Director of Wisconsin Right to Life, Barbara Lyons, and Chapter Director, Doreen Shirek, along with Joleigh Little, Director of Wisconsin Teens for Life and former NRLC staff member, and many others helped to make the day truly special for both the young people present and the adults.  If you don&#8217;t yet follow the work that Wisconsin Right to Life does, including amazing pro-life camps for young people, please check out their website at:  http://www.wrtl.org.  You can even subscribe to their updates.  Make no bones about it, Wisconsin Right to Life is a true leader in the pro-life movement&#8211;don&#8217;t miss out on keeping up with what they&#8217;re doing!</p>
<p>Secondly, I was richly blessed with meeting s0 many amazing people there in Wisconsin.  With the assistance of social media technology, I was already Facebook friends with a number of great people from Wisconsin, too numerous to count, but including Joleigh Little.  Since this weekend, I&#8217;ve been doubly blessed with now becoming Facebook friends with many more wonderful people, young and old, who had the opportunity to listen as I shared my message of hope and healing at the banquet following the convention.   Although I greatly appreciate my opportunity to share God&#8217;s message with the world, having the opportunity to meet other people and hear their own personal stories about how abortion has touched their lives is another great gift I receive each time I speak some where.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned it before, but I will mention it again&#8230;I never cease to be amazed by the number of men who are in attendance when I speak, and by the courage of these men in meeting with me afterwards to share their own deeply personal, deeply painful life stories with me.  There were three men, in particular, who left an indelible print on me Saturday night.  The first man to come speak with me after my speech was, in the words of his own teenage daughter, responsible for having her and her friends from church come to hear me speak.  &#8220;It was his idea,&#8221; she said pointing to him.  We had a wonderful time taking pictures of this amazing pro-life father, his daughter and her friends, and he was absolutely beaming after hearing me share my message with the audience.  God bless him and his daughter&#8230;may he serve as an example and support to his daughter in all of the years to come.</p>
<p>The second man who came to speak with me shared that he has 10 children, which I greatly admire.  In our discussion, this wonderful man shared that although he has 10 children and he is pro-life, hearing me speak gave him a new perspective on abortion and on his family that he hadn&#8217;t had before.  His gratitude and his love for his family was evident, and I am so grateful that he was able to be positively impacted by our time together.</p>
<p>The third man who truly touched my heart Saturday night did so in a BIG way.  He was teary-eyed as he approached me and we shook hands briefly before I embraced him.  He shared his difficult story of having a child aborted in the past, and although he has been fortunate enough not to keep this secret and his shame hidden from everyone (he has told his wife), he is still in pain, he still grieves the loss of his children and regrets his role in their life ending.</p>
<p>He was, understandably, affected by my testimony about my own biological father passing away, carrying the secrecy, shame and guilt of me being aborted, along with him.  He was, understandably, affected by message that as a result of over 50 million children&#8217;s lives being ended by abortion, that hundreds of millions of women, men, family members and communities now suffer as a result.  He understood my painful reality that if I had not survived that abortion attempt, my own daughter, Olivia, would never have lived.  More importantly, he heard from me that men are hurt by abortion, too, and that he had the right to grieve for his lost children, that he had the right to heal from the effects of abortion.  He is so courageous for not only sharing his story with me, but for also feeling the need to make amends with the woman who he fathered a child with, whom he supported in having the abortion.  I will pray that this courageous, caring man finds the hope and healing that he so desperately needs and he deserves.</p>
<p>As I state on my website, &#8220;One decision, one single moment, can have such a detrimental impact on so many people, living and dead, born and yet to be conceived.&#8221;  Abortion doesn&#8217;t just hurt women and children, as these men can attest to.  Abortion hurts men, it hurts families, it hurts communities.  And as my soon to be 2-year-old daughter, Olivia, gives testament to, abortion ends the lives of not just those that are already conceived, but those that would never then be conceived in the future.</p>
<p>Over two years now after the passing of my biological father, I still grieve the loss of his death, and the chance of ever having a chance to get to know him or learn about his role in my mother aborting me, but I know this was the Lord&#8217;s plan.  For in my father&#8217;s death, has come great healing for other men.  My father&#8217;s parting gift to this world was to pass along to me the message of his life, and his pain, to share it with others, in the hopes that they could learn from it and not suffer in the ways that my father obviously must have, carrying the secret of my mother&#8217;s abortion, and even my survival, to his own grave.</p>
<p>Bless you, my dear father in Heaven&#8212;we WILL meet again someday.  Bless you to the amazing men, young and old alike, who shared in my time in Wisconsin this weekend.  May the Lord continue to bring everyone who is touched by abortion in this world, including men, the healing, love, and hope that they need and deserve.</p>
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		<title>Letter To Olivia On Her 2nd Birthday</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[March 26, 2010
 
My Dearest Olivia,
I can’t believe that I am writing you another birthday letter already….this past year has just flown by, mostly because we’ve been having so much fun with you! We are celebrating your birthday early this year (April 3rd) because your Grandpa Norman will be here from Texas, and you will [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">March 26, 2010</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">My Dearest Olivia,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I can’t believe that I am writing you another birthday letter already….this past year has just flown by, mostly because we’ve been having so much fun with you! We are celebrating your birthday early this year (April 3<sup>rd</sup>) because your Grandpa Norman will be here from Texas, and you will be busy traveling to pro-life events with me and Grandma Terry over your birthday, so I am writing this letter to you a little early this year, too.  As of today, it is one month till your 2<sup>nd</sup> birthday!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Last year, on the night before your first birthday, I rocked you to sleep and cried and cried as I held you in my arms (Heck, I’ll probably do that every year until you finally tell me that I can’t anymore J).  Certainly, a little part of me was sad that your first year of life went SO FAST, and you were no longer my little baby, but even more so, I was crying tears of gratitude and love.  I have always wanted to be a mother, and I thought that I knew what motherhood was all about, but nothing prepared me for just how intensely I would love you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You will see from the pictures of your first birthday that it was a very blessed, beautiful day! Your Grandma Terry, Grandpa Don, Great-Grandpa Don, Grandma Linda, Aunt Nadine, Great-Great Aunt Vicki, Grandpa Ron and April all attended.  We had cake and ice cream, grilled out, had lots of salads and special foods that were your favorites.  Our theme was “Birthday Princess.”  All in all, you had a great time, and even enjoyed opening your gifts! This was the first time ever that Great-Grandpa Don and Great –Great Aunt Vicki met all of our family.  It was a special day, indeed.  The day capped off with you having to be thrown in the tub to get all of the ooey-gooey frosting from cake and cookies off of you, but it was sure worth it!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">This year, the theme for your party is Dora the Explorer.  You will grow up and grow out of it, but for about the past year now, you’ve had an obsession with Dora J.  You have two Dora plush blankets that you drag and carry everywhere with you, and you now have a Dora bedspread, sheets, and pillowcase in your room.  You sing the song to the show, and know all of the characters.  You can even speak Spanish like her.  Mommy got a small cake for the rest of us this year, but you get your very own individual Dora cake covered in purple frosting.  I can’t wait to decorate for your party….I know that you are going to be crazy about it!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I don’t know just where to begin this year…..very rarely am I without words, but when it comes to you, you move me beyond words.  Ah, here I am crying already as I write this….I love you, I love you, I love you! I love you more and more every day!  You continue to amaze your father and me, and certainly everyone around you.  We still get the same response any time we go somewhere with you-“Oh, look at her, she’s so beautiful!” But now people are also just as awe-struck by how smart you are.  Whether you are putting 4 and 5 year old boys in their place at the mall food court by counting to ten in Spanish when they only could count to three or you are singing your ABC’s in a stall in the church bathroom, you really impress people!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">At this time last year, you babbled a lot, and you said momma and dada, made lots of gestures, did the motions to songs like itsy-bitsy spider and the wheels on the bus, and followed directions quite well for your age.  You weren’t yet walking, but just a few days after your first birthday, you started to.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Flash forward to now, and you are no longer our little baby, but our very big girl! You don’t just walk, you run, jump, kick, throw, climb, you name it.  You have the most extensive vocabulary of any 23 month old I’ve ever known.  There doesn’t seem to be a word that you don’t know or can’t repeat (and you’ve repeated a couple of interesting words, sweetheart, thanks to your parents who haven’t always watched their mouths!).  You are great at reading books and making up the stories to them, or filling in the story accurately as I ask you to tell me what happens next in them.   You are a whiz at flashcards, and you are also one heck of a good singer! Whether you are just singing the tune of a song, making up words to your own creative work, or singing your favorite songs (The Barney song, Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star, Baa-Baa Black Sheep and the theme songs to Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Dora and Superwhy are just a few), you usually wake up singing in the morning and go to be singing at night!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You still are not the best sleeper, but you’ve made a lot of progress this past year.  We changed your bed to a toddler bed in August this past year, and it really made a world of difference.  You started to sleep more soundly, and for the most part, stay sleeping in your room all night.  You do love to come creeping into our room around 3 or 4 in the morning to snuggle, but we don’t mind! You still get up pretty darn early (most of the year has been between 4:30 and 5:30, never past 7:00, and often you like to throw “parties” in the middle of the night for a few hours that I wish that you wouldn’t invite me to so often J).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You’ve had an amazing year, learning and growing SO MUCH! At the same time, though, it was a rough year in other areas.  In June of 2009, you contracted MRSA, had quick surgery on it (we’ll talk about those scars on your hind-end some day), and was hospitalized for five days.  It was a very tough time, but you were such a trooper! (Your favorite part of your hospital stay, besides having Grandma Terry and Mommy at your beck and call, had to be jumping on your enclosed hospital bed J).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You stayed home to recuperate for a couple more weeks at home, but not long after you started back at daycare, you contracted hand, foot and mouth disease.  UGH! This was even harder on you than the MRSA, and Mommy was ready to quit her job to keep you home and safe from the hazards of daycare! Once again, though, you were a wonderful girl, healed well, and loved going back to daycare.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Speaking of daycare, this past year you progressed developmentally through two different rooms&#8212;Brandi and Lauren’s, and then Bailey and Jenny’s, before being moved to Hailey and Ranae’s room, which is where you still are now.  Overall, I know that you really like daycare, especially learning lots of new things and playing with your friends (you even have a boyfriend, Brett&#8212;it’s so cute how you say his name and giggle about him!), but you’ve had your moments there J.  You went through a couple of stages where you were biting other kids pretty regularly (your favorite places to bite were their heads and ears J), but it was usually because you were teething and your teeth hurt.  You also liked to bite when you were “too” anything&#8212;too tired, too thirsty, too hungry, too overstimulated, etc.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Right now, you are still working on cutting your two year molars, but you’ve been coping pretty well with it.  And all things considering, you’ve been pretty darn healthy since the whole MRSA/Hand, Foot and Mouth Disease episode.  You just recently lost one of the tubes that was put in your ear, and just got a slight infection in it, but all in all, you’ve had a much healthier year than your first.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">This year was also a big year for you and our entire family in terms of our involvement in the pro-life movement and our presence on both the national and international fronts.  By the time you are old enough to start reading these letters that I write you each year, you will already know our whole story about why we are active in the life movement, and how abortion affected all of our lives.  I hope that you can look back on your childhood and see that you are a very important person in this work, and that this was our calling from the Lord.  Just as it was my calling to be saved from it, you were called to be my daughter, to help bear witness, and ultimately change the hearts and minds of millions of people.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">During this past year, you had the opportunity to go to Washington D.C. with Mommy, Grandma Linda and Aunt Gladys for a few days while I spoke at a large event there.  We all had a wonderful time, and the attendees of the event were awed by your presence.  Lots of people from around the world, including Poland, China, Greece and South Africa took your picture! (Yes, you’ve been famous almost since birth J).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You then got to travel to Indiana and Texas with Mommy and Grandma Linda for another couple of pro-life events that I spoke at. (The one in Indiana was at this really beautiful mansion…I spoke in front of a baby grand piano….that will probably never happen again!).  Overall, you were a really good girl, and getting to have you with me when I am out traveling and speaking makes it all worthwhile.  (Plus I can’t stand being away from you!)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">At the end of this April, over your birthday, in fact, you will once again be traveling with Mommy and this time Grandma Terry, to pro-life events in Indiana and Tennessee, and we will even be spending some time with Uncle Troy in Kentucky !  Later this year, you will be going to Australia with Mommy and Daddy to meet some amazing pro-lifers down there and speak at events across the continent (I can’t wait for you to see kangaroos and koala bears!!)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The 700 Club (a Christian tv program) will be coming up to our house sometime this year, too, to film us and share our story on their television program.  We are all so excited about this and feel so blessed about this huge opportunity to share our message with the world (yep, once again, you are famous as a very young girl!).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">There are so many things that I want to say to you, but this letter just won’t do it justice.  You are still, and will always be, the light of my life.  You are still a mommy’s girl, but over the past year, your relationship with your daddy has really blossomed.  You love to goof around with him “downstairs” (that’s what you call the family room downstairs at our current house).  The two of you listen to music and watch music videos for what seems like hours, and you like to watch him play video games, and dig through all of the computer related stuff that he keeps down there.  You are also crazy about all of your “Meemaws” and “Bampas”  (Grandmas and Grandpas).  There have been quite a few times that you’ve sat and cried because you missed them, and you always seem to spot “Bampas” out in public…..it’s cute but sad to me at the same time, because I know that you would love to see them even more often than you do now (which is usually every couple of weeks).  One of your favorite things to do at bedtime is to look at the pictures of family that we have hanging on your bed, name who it is, and then tell them goodnight J.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">As much as you are a mommy’s girl, when there is a Meemaw or a Bampa around, Mommy suddenly becomes invisible! That’s okay, though.  I am more than willing to share you with them, because I know that you will always be my girl, and I will always be your mommy! You really are the greatest blessing that I have ever received, Olivia, and I hope that I will always reflect that to you in my love and care for you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Happy 2<sup>nd</sup> birthday, sweetpea! Daddy, Patches and I love you immensely!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Love,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Mommy</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s amazing&#8230;.I went to bed last night thinking that I was &#8220;okay&#8221; with the passing of the healthcare legislation, only in the sense that I knew that this was just the beginning, and there are many battlefronts yet ahead for it.  Of course, I was also thinking about how the Lord will surely not fail [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s amazing&#8230;.I went to bed last night thinking that I was &#8220;okay&#8221; with the passing of the healthcare legislation, only in the sense that I knew that this was just the beginning, and there are many battlefronts yet ahead for it.  Of course, I was also thinking about how the Lord will surely not fail us in this time of uncertainty.  Then, not surprisingly, it hit me like a ton of bricks this morning as I dropped Olivia off at daycare and had some time alone to myself on my long drive to work today&#8230;..I am leaving my fate in the hands of a President who has thus far made it blatantly clear that he is NOT pro-life, nowhere close to it.  And despite my belief in a power much greater than him, I got angry and scared, and I cried.  And I cried, and I cried, and I cried (to the trucker who saw me sobbing hysterically on the Interstate today, my apologies&#8230;.I bet my driving scared the heck out of you).</p>
<p>Like always, though, my anger and my sadness washed away pretty quickly, and I felt full of passion and strength, and I knew the Lord was filling me with the Holy Spirit and sending the message that the passage of the healthcare bill and whether or not it provides funding for abortions WILL NOT get me down, it WILL NOT slow me down, it WILL NOT quiet my voice.  On the contrary, I feel like the battle lines have been even more deeply drawn, and I have been called to fight.</p>
<p>Then, tonight, I read my scripture for the day, and it was from Ephesians 6:  10-11:</p>
<p>The Armor of God</p>
<p><sup>&#8220;</sup>Finally,  be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. <sup id="en-NIV-29333">1</sup>Put on the full armor of God so that you can  take your stand against the devil&#8217;s schemes.&#8221;</p>
<p>Looking back on this morning, it all makes sense.  I felt like I was being called to battle by the Lord, and felt as if He was wrapping himself around me when I felt such despair.  And certainly, He was&#8230;.He was wrapping me in His armor to prepare me for the battles that lie ahead for me.</p>
<p>And then, because the Lord does such an awesome job of sending me multiple messages like I&#8217;ve often asked Him to when I am unsure of His plans for me, I came across this article from the National Right to Life committee from earlier in the day entitled:  &#8220;This will not stand.  The fight has just begun.&#8221;  Oh, the Lord is good at sending me the not-so-subtle hints.  Not only am I called to bear witness to His grace and the true reality of abortion, but I am called to fight for the rights of my unborn brothers and sisters and not be silenced by fear or threat of retaliation.  If I ever doubted for a second in the past if I was ready to take this fight for life on, head on, I don&#8217;t anymore.  I know that we have a war waging in this world on the value and dignity of human life, and I am ready to fight for the rights of the millions of unborn children just like me, and all of those whose lives they <strong>could</strong> have touched.</p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: medium;"> <strong>This Will Not Stand. The  												Fight Has Just Begun </strong></span> <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"><br />
<strong>Part One of Four</strong></span><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> By Dave Andrusko</span></p>
<p><em> <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Lots to read today. 												<a href="http://www.nrlc.org/News_and_views/March10/nv032210part2.html"> Part Two</a> is a brilliant  												examination of the rationing  												components of ObamaCare. 												<a href="http://www.nrlc.org/News_and_views/March10/nv032210part3.html"> Part Three</a> is an Alert which  												lays out the basics of what  												happened yesterday in the House  												of Representatives. 												<a href="http://www.nrlc.org/News_and_views/March10/nv032210part4.html"> Part Four</a> is a statement  												from the Christian Medical  												Association. Please send me your  												comments at 												<a href="mailto:daveandrusko@gmail.com"> daveandrusko@gmail.com</a>.   												And don&#8217;t forget to visit our  												newest information source 												<a href="http://www.nationalrighttolifenews.org/"> www.nationalrighttolifenews.org</a>. </span></em></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Last night the House of  												Representatives&#8217; lamentably  												voted 219 to 212 in favor of  												ObamaCare. The  												outcome&#8211;including the  												underhanded manner in which it  												happened and the names of all  												those who voted in favor&#8211;is  												seared into our memories. </span></p>
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<p align="center"><em><strong> <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: xx-small;"> Pro-abortion President  														Barack Obama,  														Pro-abortion House  														Speaker Nancy Pelosi</span></strong></em></p>
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<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> The regrettable basics are  												straightforward. All 219 votes  												in favor were cast by Democrats.  												Of the opposing (pro-life)  												votes, 178 were cast by  												Republicans and 34 by Democrats. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> You have to hand it&#8211;sort of&#8211;to  												President Barack Obama, Senate  												Majority Leader Harry Reid, and  												House Speaker Nancy Pelosi. They  												could not have dragged this  												lemon of a bill over the finish  												line if they were not as wedded  												to their anti-life views as we  												are married to finding  												life-affirming solutions for  												both mother and child.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> A few weeks ago it looked like  												this abortion of a bill was  												stalled. When other Democrats  												looked at the massive opposition  												and asked why they should throw  												themselves under the bus,  												Pelosi, in particular, never  												wavered. (It helps brace you  												spine when, like Pelosi, you  												represent a congressional  												district that will never vote  												you out.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Their tactics were a witch&#8217;s  												brew of deception, misdirection,  												out-and-out lies, enforced by  												political muscle. But  												blithefully free of conscience,  												this did not even give them  												reason to pause. Collectively,  												they did what they needed to do  												to win and never looked back.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Now it&#8217;s up to Americans who  												disagree with commandeering  												control over one-sixth of the  												American economy, and in the  												process multiplying the number  												of dead babies, to prove that  												Obama/Reid/Pelosi ought to have  												been more careful what they  												asked for.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Let me offer a few quotes to put  												what follows in context.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> &#8220;The executive order promised by  												President Obama was issued for  												political effect. It changes  												nothing. It does not correct any  												of the serious pro-abortion  												provisions in the bill. The  												president cannot amend a bill by  												issuing an order, and the  												federal courts will enforce what  												the law says.&#8217;<br />
&#8211; National Right to Life, March 21.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> &#8220;President Obama is set to begin  												an immediate public relations  												blitz aimed at turning around  												Americans&#8217; opinion of the  												health-care bill.&#8221;<br />
&#8211; From &#8220;Obama plans blitz to boost public opinion of  												health-care effort&#8221; in this  												morning&#8217;s <em>Washington Post</em>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> &#8220;Yes, With Trepidation&#8221;<br />
&#8211; Headline of a Friday <em>Washington Post</em> editorial endorsing House  												passage of a massive health care  												restructuring bill strongly  												opposed by the National Right to  												Right.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> &#8220;The final numbers for Congress  												before passing the health care  												proposal showed that just 11%  												believe the legislature is doing  												a good or an excellent job.&#8221;<br />
&#8211; Rasmussen Reports, March 22</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> What do these four  												representative quotes tell us?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> First, the genius of ObamaCare  												proponents was to understand  												that if they could not coerce  												wavering Democrats into line,  												they had to find a  												quasi-plausible cover story. It  												was like watching somebody go up  												into the attic, open up a trunk  												and pull one shirt/pants/dress  												after another. Eventually, they  												found rhetorical garments that  												fit the need of hesitant  												Democrats who felt exposed. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> The last fig leaf was the worst:  												that Obama would sign an  												executive order after the bill  												was law &#8220;affirming prohibitions  												in current law and in the health  												legislation against taxpayer  												money going to abortions,&#8221; as  												the <em>Associated Press</em> described it. In announcing the  												agreement Sunday, which brought  												several pivotal votes over to  												the &#8220;yes&#8221; column, Rep. Bart  												Stupak offered a very  												unfortunate and completely  												inaccurate assessment: &#8220;Make no  												doubt about it,&#8221; he said. &#8220;There  												will be no public funds for  												abortion.&#8221; </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> As if an executive order could  												trump statutory law�.As if  												Obama, joined at the hip to the  												Abortion Establishment, would  												stand over like sentinel,  												watching how the law played out  												to ensure that public funds  												AREN&#8217;T used for abortion. Such  												an assurance was/is as misguided  												as it was/is wrong</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Second, Obama will be on the  												hustings, we are told,  												persuading the people that  												ObamaCare is the greatest thing  												since sliced bread, probably  												better. As further protection  												we&#8217;ve been told that the  												American public supposedly has  												the attention span of a gnat. By  												the time November rolls around,  												the public will be concerned  												with something else. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Of course if you are Democrat  												who has voted for a massively  												expensive, intrusive health care  												castle built on sand, you have  												to believe, or at least hope,  												this is true. It  												is&#8211;unfortunately for them&#8211;180  												degrees off. If anything, the  												debate will grow fiercer, as we  												will see over the next month.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Third, publications such as the 												<em>Washington Post</em> and the 												<em>New York Times</em> ran  												interference for  												Obama/Reid/Pelosi.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> But not only did they block  												below the knees, they were  												repeatedly guilty of  												unsportsmanlike conduct. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> It&#8217;s bad enough that the  												Democratic leadership threaten  												to run primary challengers  												against reluctant Democrats or  												to make sure their financial  												contribution dry up. But what&#8217;s  												worse is the conduct of so many  												established media outlets.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Opponents of ObamaCare were  												attacked so fiercely it almost  												gave demagoguery a bad name.  												Their arguments were either  												dismissed using guilt by  												association (you can always find  												somebody who will say or do  												something stupid), caricatured,  												or treated as if was beneath  												their dignity even to respond.  												But even if you were half-awake  												when you read last Friday&#8217;s <em> Post</em> editorial, you couldn&#8217;t  												miss that the writer was likely  												trying to talk himself/herself  												into believing what they were  												writing. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> &#8220;Yes, with trepidation&#8221; was the  												headline. &#8220;Yes, even though 90%  												of the evidence in this  												editorial demands a &#8216;no&#8217;&#8221; would  												have been much more accurate.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Finally, the prestige of  												Congress, never high to begin  												with, has tanked. There&#8217;s an old  												joke that &#8220;Law and sausage are  												two things you do not want to  												see being made.&#8221; In fact, if  												Democracy is going to flourish,  												we <strong>must</strong> see how laws are  												made.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> And in the case of ObamaCare,  												not only did the Republican  												Party kept from seeing what was  												going on until the final hours,  												so was the American public. Over  												the next few weeks the details  												of what was hidden away in this  												2,000+page monstrosity will  												gradually see the light of day.  												It will not be a pretty sight.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Keep coming back to TN&amp;V over  												the next weeks; to our new  												outlet 												<a href="http://www.nationalrighttolifenews.org/"> www.nationalrighttolifenews.org</a>;  												to 												<a href="http://nrlactioncenter.com/"> http://nrlactioncenter.com</a>;  												to 												<a href="http://nrlactioncenter.com/"> http://nrlactioncenter.com</a> and to <strong>National Right to Life  												News</strong>. We will keep you  												constantly updated.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;"> Let me conclude with what you  												already know: The fight has only  												begun. This will not stand. If  												you agree, write me at 												<a href="mailto:daveandrusko@gmail.com"> daveandrusko@gmail.com</a>. </span></p>
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Statement by the National Right to Life  						Committee
on abortion &#8220;deal&#8221; on  						health care legislation
WASHINGTON &#8212; (Sunday, March 21, 2010, 6 PM EDT) &#8211;  In  						response to today&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
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<p align="center"><strong>Statement by the National Right to Life  						Committee</strong><br />
<strong>on abortion &#8220;deal&#8221; on  						health care legislation</strong></p>
<p><strong>WASHINGTON &#8212; (Sunday, March 21, 2010, 6 PM EDT) &#8211;  In  						response to today&#8217;s announcement regarding an agreement  						between Rep. Bart Stupak (D-Mi.) and President Obama on  						the pending health care bill (H.R. 3590), the following  						statement was issued by the National Right to Life  						Committee (NRLC), the federation of right-to-life  						organizations in the 50 states:</strong></p>
<p><strong>The  						National Right to Life Committee (NRLC) remains strongly  						opposed to the Senate-passed health bill (H.R. 3590).  A  						lawmaker who votes for this bill is voting to require  						federal agencies to subsidize and administer health  						plans that will pay for elective abortion, and voting to  						undermine longstanding pro-life policies in other ways  						as well.  Pro-life citizens nationwide know that this is  						a pro-abortion bill.  Pro-life citizens know, and they  						will be reminded again and again, which lawmakers  						deserve their gratitude for voting against this  						pro-abortion legislation. </strong></p>
<p><strong>The  						executive order promised by President Obama was issued  						for political effect.  It changes nothing.  It does not  						correct any of the serious pro-abortion provisions in  						the bill.  The president cannot amend a bill by issuing  						an order, and the federal courts will enforce what the  						law says. </strong></p>
<p><strong>To elaborate:  The order does not truly  						correct any of the seven objectionable pro-abortion  						provisions described in NRLC&#8217;s March 19 letter to the  						House of Representatives, which is posted here:   						<a title="http://www.mmsend3.com/ls.cfm?r=166824244&amp;sid=8991997&amp;m=962368&amp;u=NRLC&amp;s=http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/NRLCToHouseOnHealthBill.pdf" href="http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/NRLCToHouseOnHealthBill.pdf" target="_blank"> www.nrlc.org/AHC/NRLCToHouseOnHealthBill.pdf</a>.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Regarding Community Health Centers (CHCs),  						NRLC has documented the problem created by H.R. 3590  						here:   						<a title="http://www.mmsend3.com/ls.cfm?r=166824244&amp;sid=8991998&amp;m=962368&amp;u=NRLC&amp;s=http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/NRLCMemoCommHealth.html" href="http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/NRLCMemoCommHealth.html" target="_blank"> www.nrlc.org/AHC/NRLCMemoCommHealth.html</a>.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Prof. Robert Destro, a professor of law  						and former dean of the Columbus School of Law at the  						Catholic University of America, and an expert on  						abortion-related litigation, has sent lawmakers a letter  						explaining why the bill opens the door to direct federal  						funding of abortion in Community Health Centers:   						<a title="http://www.mmsend3.com/ls.cfm?r=166824244&amp;sid=8991999&amp;m=962368&amp;u=NRLC&amp;s=http://www.nrlc.org/ahc/DestroLetterToStupakOnCommHealthCenters.pdf" href="http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/DestroLetterToStupakOnCommHealthCenters.pdf" target="_blank"> www.nrlc.org/ahc/DestroLetterToStupakOnCommHealthCenters.pdf</a>.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Prof. Destro clearly  						explains why it is the statutory language that will  						govern.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Regarding the new program to provide tax credits to  						purchase private insurance, the executive order merely  						tinkers with the formalities of a bookkeeping scheme  						under which federal subsidies will pay for plans that  						cover elective abortion &#8212; a break from the longstanding  						principles of the Hyde Amendment.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The  						order does nothing at all to mitigate the other  						abortion-related problems described in the NRLC letter,  						dealing with bill provisions that create dangerous  						regulatory mandate authorities, revise Indian health  						programs, and create pools of directly appropriated  						funds that are not covered by existing restrictions on  						funding of abortion.  Nor can the order correct the  						omission from the pending legislation of the necessary  						conscience-protection language that had been included in  						House-passed health care legislation last November (the  						&#8220;Weldon language&#8221;).</strong></p>
<p><strong>For additional information regarding the  						abortion-related components of the legislation, and  						NRLC&#8217;s assessment of the gravity of these issues, please  						refer to the March 19 letter linked above, and other  						materials posted on the NRLC website at  						<a title="http://www.mmsend3.com/ls.cfm?r=166824244&amp;sid=8992000&amp;m=962368&amp;u=NRLC&amp;s=http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/Index.html" href="http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/Index.html" target="_blank"> www.nrlc.org/AHC/Index.html</a>.</strong></p>
<p><strong>For  						interviews on this issue, please call the NRLC  						Communications Department at (202) 626-8825.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><em><a href="http://www.nrlc.org/AHC/Index.html" target="_blank">www.nrlc.org/AHC/Index.html</a> </em></p>
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		<title>Politics without Principles: One of the 7 Modern Sins</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 03:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sure most of you have read this article already today, or one similar to it, updating us on the House&#8217;s healthcare vote tomorrow.  I have so many things I want to say about the pending healthcare vote, but truthfully, it&#8217;s all pretty much been said.  I came across a great quote today, however, that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sure most of you have read this article already today, or one similar to it, updating us on the House&#8217;s healthcare vote tomorrow.  I have so many things I want to say about the pending healthcare vote, but truthfully, it&#8217;s all pretty much been said.  I came across a great quote today, however, that I thought was really fitting for the current state of political affairs here in the U.S. and this pending vote tomorrow:</p>
<p>&#8220;The 7 modern sins: politics without principles, pleasures without conscience, wealth without work, knowledge without character, industry without morality, science without humanity, worship without sacrifice&#8221;&#8211; Canon Frederic Donaldson.</p>
<p>My final words for the night go out to Rep. Bart Stupak.  Mr. Stupak, God bless you! I have no doubt that taking a stand and keeping your stance on the healthcare bill has been a &#8220;living hell&#8221; for you.  Please know that no matter how the vote goes tomorrow, you have shown an commitment and love to children like me that is seldom seen in Washington.  I have no doubt that you have left a legacy, and you have had a positive impact on the world.</p>
<h3>Breakdown: Pelosi&#8217;s 11th-Hour Pitch for Pro-Life Dem Votes Crumbles</h3>
<p>By Kathleen Gilbert</p>
<p><em>Updated 2:52 pm EST</em></p>
<p>WASHINGTON,  D.C., March 20, 2010 (<a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/">LifeSiteNews.com</a>)  &#8211; A desperate compromise attempt by House Speaker Nancy Pelosi to  snatch up the votes of pro-life Democrats led by Rep. Bart Stupak (D-MI)  appears to have disintegrated under intense pressure from pro-abortion  lobbyists, various sources report Saturday.</p>
<p>The dramatic bid  reportedly fell apart one day before the House&#8217;s final vote on the  Senate health care bill scheduled for Sunday.</p>
<p>Capitol Hill sources  reported Friday that Stupak was in dialogue with Pelosi over allowing a  vote on the Stupak language, which would bar federal funding of  abortion after the pattern of the Hyde amendment, in a vote &#8220;tie-barred&#8221;  to the health bill vote.</p>
<p>Stupak seemed to be giving Speaker  Pelosi an offer she couldn&#8217;t refuse: her nail-biting search for 216  votes &#8211; the minimum needed for the bill&#8217;s passage &#8211; has so far come up  just short, according to various <a href="http://news.firedoglake.com/2010/03/20/new-whip-count-with-changes-to-reflect-the-stupak-bloc/">whip  counts</a>. Even should she sway all the &#8220;undecideds&#8221; to her side, she  would reportedly have only 214 votes if she is unable to peel any more  off the small band of pro-life Democrats held together by Stupak.</p>
<p>Yet,  a furious cadre of pro-abortion women descended upon the Speaker&#8217;s  office Friday evening to inform her that as many as 40-55 &#8220;yes&#8221; votes  would jump ship should she abandon the abortion funding embedded in the  bill. When the House voted in the Stupak language last year, pro-aborts  had reluctantly agreed &#8211; but vowed to ensure the language would be  removed for a final vote.</p>
<p>&#8220;We are holding firm this time,&#8221; Rep.  Diana Degette, D-CO, told reporters Friday. &#8220;If Mr. Stupak and a few  members along with the Republicans decide to use this to take health  care down, that loss of health care will be in their hands.&#8221;</p>
<p><span>A press conference Stupak and his group had scheduled for  Saturday morning was abruptly postponed, although no reason was given.  Stupak spokesperson Michelle Begnoche said later that &#8220;discussions are  continuing,&#8221; according to <a href="http://www.politico.com/livepulse/0310/Stupak_delays_presser.html?showall">Politico</a>.</p>
<p><strong>UPDATE (2:01pm EST):</strong> Pelosi has confirmed that  there will be no separate vote for abortion language. National Review  Online <a href="http://corner.nationalreview.com/post/?q=ZTMxZDkzZjBmNzk4NzRhYzMwNTM3YzA0YzIxNDc3NDg=">reports</a>,  however, that Pelosi continues to meet with members of the Stupak band,  specifically Reps. Driehaus (D-OH) and Dahlkemper (D-Penn.), who said  they were &#8220;still working on&#8221; the issue. Meanwhile, <a href="http://corner.nationalreview.com/post/?q=Y2Y2OTU2ZDYwNWU4NjJiNzkxYzkyZDBkOTdhOWJlZDA=">according  to NRO</a>, House Majority Leader Steny Hoyer says he is working on an  executive order involving &#8220;Stupak-like&#8221; language to appease the group.</p>
<p><strong>UPDATE  2 (2:52pm EST):</strong> Politico <a href="http://www.politico.com/livepulse/0310/BREAKING__House_to_vote_on_the_Senate_bill_.html">reports</a> that the  House will abandon the controversial &#8220;deem and pass&#8221; solution, and will  instead vote on the actual Senate health care bill Sunday.</p>
<p>FireDogLake.com  listed eleven &#8220;undecideds&#8221;: Brian Baird (D &#8211; WA), Jim Matheson (D-UT),  Glenn Nye (D-VA), John Tanner (D-TN), Melissa Bean (D-IL), Chris Carney  (D-PA), Bill Foster (D-IL), Paul Kanjorski (D-PA), Solomon Ortiz (D-TX),  Earl Pomeroy (D-ND), Zack Space (D-OH), Mike Michaud (D-ME). Bill Owens  (D-NY) has come out as a &#8220;yes&#8221; vote, it was reported Saturday morning.</p>
<p>Currently,  there are 11 confirmed members of Stupak&#8217;s band &#8211; which, under  unrelenting pressure, has reportedly seen many leave and others join the  ranks in recent days. They are: Bart Stupak (D-Mich.), Marion Berry  (D-Ark.), Sanford Bishop (D-GA), Jerry Costello (D-Ill.), Kathy  Dahlkemper (D-Penn.), Joe Donnelly (D-Ind.), Steve Driehaus (D-OH),  Marcy Kaptur (D-OH), Dan Lipinski (D-Ill.), Alan Mollohan (D-WV), Nick  Rahall (D-WV).</p>
<p>Earlier this week, Stupak said that he was  undergoing a <a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10031801.html">&#8220;living  hell&#8221; </a>over his opposition to the abortion-expanding bill, and <a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10031215.html">complained</a> of lobbyists threatening to take out &#8220;ethics complaints&#8221; against him  should he not switch his vote.</p>
<p><em>Visit </em><a href="http://stoptheabortionmandate.com/"><em>http://stoptheabortionmandate.com/</em></a><em> or the NRLC </em><a href="http://www.capwiz.com/nrlc/callalert/index.tt?alertid=14772666&amp;type=CO"><em>website</em></a><em> for information on contacting U.S. lawmakers.</em></p>
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		<title>And Who Says Abortion Doesn&#8217;t Hurt Women?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 03:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I&#8217;ve said it once, I&#8217;ve said it a hundred times, and I will likely say it thousands times more throughout my lifetime.  I NEVER cease to be amazed by the pain and suffering that men, women, family members, friends, and communities experience as a result of abortion.  Certainly, I can relate.  I can&#8217;t relate, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I&#8217;ve said it once, I&#8217;ve said it a hundred times, and I will likely say it thousands times more throughout my lifetime.  I NEVER cease to be amazed by the pain and suffering that men, women, family members, friends, and communities experience as a result of abortion.  Certainly, I can relate.  I can&#8217;t relate, however, to the terrible grief, the shame and guilt, that so many experience and feel as a result of the role that they played in aborting a life.  Each week, I receive a handful of emails and letters from people who have been impacted by abortion and feel compelled to share their story, their pain, with me.  I am saddened by the depths of their pain, but I am grateful that they share their stories with me.  Sometimes I am the only person that they have told about the abortion, many times they just feel the intense need to share their story with a child, just like their own, who miraculously survived, when theirs did not.  Whatever the circumstances, abortion HURTS EVERYONE.</p>
<p>With all of the fanfare surrounding Pam and Tim Tebow&#8217;s Superbowl ad tomorrow night, I felt it fitting to share the following letter with all of you.  Certainly, I feel that the Lord intended for me to receive this letter this week and share this unknown woman&#8217;s story with all of you.  She may be nameless, but I feel driven to give her a voice.  She needs to be heard.  Here is a letter (with any identifying information removed) I received this week from a woman here in the U.S.  Please pray for her, just as you would for my own biological mother and all of the men, women and other family members and friends whose lives have been impacted by abortion.</p>
<p>Hi Dear Melissa,</p>
<p>I read your article in our local paper-Wow&#8212;what a positive attitude-and of course I cried&#8212;Back in 1974, I was a single lady who had an abortion-the father didn&#8217;t know anything about it-I was a drunk-would have been my parents first grandchild and of course I was all alone-didn&#8217;t know what to do or who to talk too.  So, of course, I found a doctor in the cities-had money and no one to drive me to or from the clinic, so slept in their parking lot overnite-after the abortion, they asked if I had a ride home and of course, I said &#8220;yes&#8221; even though I didn&#8217;t-barely made it home after sitting in their cafeteria for most of the day reading.  Now it&#8217;s been 35 years and I&#8217;m still alone.  I promised God I&#8217;d never bring a child into this world, so I met another guy (another drunk like I) who didn&#8217;t want kids either-so I&#8217;m still married to a drunk and I don&#8217;t drink much, so we&#8217;re both unhappy and waiting to die.  No matter what I do is wrong, just like the rest of my life.</p>
<p>Thanks for listening and enjoy your little Olivia-aren&#8217;t kids great-bring joy and love into our lives.  Take care, love, peace.</p>
<p>To this dear woman who sent me this letter, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  The Lord has forgiven you if you&#8217;ve asked for forgiveness&#8230;.I hope that one day you can forgive yourself.  You are loved, my dear sister in Christ.</p>
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		<title>The Dream Includes Us All, Born and Unborn</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 02:54:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Alveda King on King Day: The Dream Includes Us All, Born and Unborn
Priests for Life
Monday, January 18, 2010
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Dr. Alveda King, Pastoral Associate of Priests for Life and niece of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., released the following comments today on the celebration of her Uncle&#8217;s life.
&#8220;Martin Luther King, Jr. spoke of a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Dr. Alveda King on King Day: The Dream Includes Us All, Born and Unborn</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Priests for Life</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Monday, January 18, 2010</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Dr. Alveda King, Pastoral Associate of Priests for Life and niece of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., released the following comments today on the celebration of her Uncle&#8217;s life.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Martin Luther King, Jr. spoke of a Beloved Community where all are treated with respect and dignity,&#8221; said Dr. King.  &#8220;He fought against society&#8217;s exclusion of people who were treated as less than human because of their appearance.  Today, we are compelled to continue Uncle Martin&#8217;s fight by standing up for those who are treated as less than human because of their helplessness and inconvenience.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;The unborn are as much a part of the Beloved Community as are newborns, infants, teenagers, adults, and the elderly.  Too many of us speak of tolerance and inclusion, yet refuse to tolerate or include the weakest and most innocent among us in the human family.  As we celebrate the life of Uncle Martin, let us renew our hearts and commit our lives to treating each other, whatever our race, status, or stage of life, as we would want to be treated.  Let us let each other live.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Fr. Frank Pavone, National Director of Priests for Life, will join Alveda and her family as a program participant in the Martin Luther King Jr. Annual Commemorative Service at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Priests for Life is the nation&#8217;s largest Catholic pro-life organization</span> <span style="font-size: medium;">dedicated to ending abortion and euthanasia. For more information, visit www.priestsforlife.org.</span></p>
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